There really isn't any difference, despite waht people might say. Lying is lying. But a white lie is something someone tells that's supposed to be a "harmless" lie usually to try and protect someone's feelings
are both, dark as white, destined to come to light and eventually be discovered? if so, you must be right, it cannot make any difference. the person whose emotions are protected would discover the truth and be twice offended.
He would be much safer if I will not. My anger for him is without boundaries, my love. he had promised not to keep secrets from me, he had swore. there is one matter he keeps hidden from me, a burden he refuses to share and he has promised it to be his only secret. Now I find that he has lied to the sister he swore to love above all.
[ hence, she'll kick his ass if she sees him. ]
I would not forgive him nor see him without him begging for my forgiveness.
do you not find it silly? that it is known that the natures of secret is to come to light and yet most people would lie and think they can win against such a nature?
have you ever been on the receiving end of such -- white lies, I wonder?
I have never heard even a whisper of such a burden pass from his lips. ( perhaps it is the fact that he is not a cardinal any longer. but that, in all honesty is absolutely none of her business to tell. even is she cannot understand why he would keep mum about such a thing.
no, it must be somewhat else. and she isn't certain if she has the stomach to even contemplate what that might be. seeing what this one revelation has done to her. )
The few whom I have confided in have urged me to do the same; beg on his knees for forgiveness. I believe I shall heed both their counsel and your example.
There's such a thing as being too honest, and nobody ever shares their full and unfiltered opinions about absolutely everything, absolutely all of the time. Sometimes you're gentle with people because it's what they need in that moment. Those times when being honest would be for your personal satisfaction and serve no purpose other than to belittle someone else.
Civilization is built on white lies. Can you really imagine a society where people didn't know how to tell an appropriate fib? It would be anarchy. Chaos.
My good friend Thomas Jefferson said, “He who permits himself to tell a lie once, finds it much easier to do it a second and a third time till at length it becomes habitual.” There is no harmless lie.
a white lie would be like going shopping and not telling your best friend because you know she doesn't have the money to spend, so you not inviting her saves her money and feeling sad about saying no
a worse lie is like, telling someone you're studying and you can't hang out with them, but actually you're going to a bar or something with someone else
basically white lies are supposed to keep people's feelings from getting hurt
If he had lied to us then he must beg forgiveness and hope that we can find the patience and kindness in our hearts to forgive. Though I admit myself to be angry; he had promised not to hide aught from me anymore.
[ who knows how many other secrets are other. ]
and now this has come and I question the trust I have placed in my own brother.
I am sorry, for your losses. the one who had lied to me is all I have of my family here. yet I fear how many other lies were told to me. How will I know that I will not be lied to again?
[ she will humor this, for now. she is angered that he smiles, angered that he has not told her before Elizabeth and angered that she had to learn of this whole affair from Elizabeth herself. ]
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