Your lover. Ooohh, what a good word, your lover--

[He's grinning, but it's a determined grin. This is a new project, a mystery that needs to be solved.]

I don't mind asking everyone. There's a few I can rule out on principle alone, of course--people missing eyes or limbs, small children-- well, it's ask everyone, or else I'll just generally shame him into confessing.