No, no! It's very true. For example, if someone upsets me whom I do not know, I tend to let it pass and perhaps, if I am honest, avoid their company. But if it is someone I like very much, I will debate them instead; and seek out their company still, even if we're nagging.

[Granted, it's... very difficult to keep an ongoing arguement with him as he doesn't enjoy arguing and keeps company with reasonable people.

Still... when under the influence of wine, there have been some downright nasty debates that ended in not a single grudge being held.]

It's like that with family at times, too. You don't agree?