Look, let me bust this down for you. She's gonna be hurting, she's gonna be feeling like nothing's safe, and staying in a hospital kind of deal's only gonna make it worse.

She needs to breathe before you get all up on her, all right? And don't tell her to do shit, ask if she's up for it. Or it's not gonna feel like you give a shit, you're gonna feel like just another threat.

[ any guesses on why she knows all this? ]